ABOUT ME

Kathy Bell is a Clinical Mental Health Counseling Associate in North Carolina. She received her Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at The Townsend Institute at Concordia University at Irvine. Kathy has completed Level 1 & 2 Narrative Focused Trauma Care (NFTC) at the Allender Center at The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. She has completed training in Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy Essentials (EFIT), Dialectal Behavior Therapy (DBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS) and the Townsend Character Model of Development.

Carl Jung and Henri Nouwen call helpers “wounded healers.” As a wounded healer, Kathy has journeyed through her own childhood trauma, spiritual abuse, grief, and the emotional and physical dysregulation all of this leaves in our hearts, beliefs, and bodies.

Through engaging her own work, Kathy has come to believe in the profound transformation that can happen, the wholeheartedness that happens within, and the peace and shalom that occurs through engaging our stories in safe places.

The Journey Home

We all get stuck somewhere along the way. Usually, it happens in a moment, a season, or a relationship where we desperately needed attunement and didn’t get it.

If you found your way to this space, chances are you are carrying a story you learned to keep quiet. Maybe you grew up in a home or a faith community where harm was never actually named. Where love felt conditional, where your survival depended on keeping the peace, and where you learned to smile through things that were entirely unlivable.

You might look at your life today and feel completely disoriented—heartbroken that things turned out this way despite how hard you tried, caught between a deep longing to be known and a terrifying fear of letting anyone close.

How I Work

I believe that true healing doesn't happen when someone performs their recovery correctly; it happens when they are finally met exactly where they are.

My practice is rooted in Emotion-Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT), Narrative Trauma-Focused Therapy, and a grounded somatic lens.

  • The Narrative Lens: Your story matters. Together, we will gently put words to what happened when no longer hiding behind silence, giving you space to grieve what was lost and honor the courage it took for you to survive.

  • The Emotion-Focused Lens: Emotions are not problems to fix or override. They are intelligent guides pointing directly to what we needed back then and what we need now.

  • The Somatic Lens: We cannot think our way out of trauma that lives in the body. We will slow down—unhurriedly—to listen to the physical and emotional cues you've had to ignore for years, helping your nervous system learn that it is safe to rest, soften, and trust.

What You Can Expect With Me

I am not here to rush you, coach you into a quick fix, or hand you a workbook to fast-track your wholeness. Growth isn't about transcending your past; it's finally being present to it so it stops running the show. When you sit with me, you don't need to perform expertise or keep it together. You are welcome to bring your tears, your anger, your theological wrestling, and your deepest shame. We will meet all of it with curiosity and compassion rather than judgment.

Healing is a slow, sacred, and non-linear process. If you are looking for someone who will stay in the room with you through the heavy, quiet, and beautiful work of becoming whole, I would be honored to walk alongside you.

I’d love to help you find your new path. See how you can work with me to discover how to live with light. 


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